Reader,
Have you ever had the same argument with your spouse so many times that you can predict exactly how it’s going to go?
You know what they’re going to say.
They know what you’re going to say.
And somehow nothing gets resolved.
For years, we had a recurring argument over something as simple as a wet dish rag.
Sounds ridiculous, right?
But what we eventually discovered changed the way we communicate forever.
The argument was never really about the dish rag.
It was about what the dish rag meant to each of us.
That’s what we teach in our newest YouTube video: The Filter Principle.
Every person sees life through a filter shaped by their upbringing, experiences, disappointments, successes, failures, and relationships.
The challenge is that your spouse has a completely different filter than you do.
When you don’t understand that, you stop listening to understand and start listening to defend yourself.
That’s when communication breaks down.
In this new video, you’ll learn:
✓ Why you’re not actually fighting about what you’re fighting about
✓ How your filter impacts communication
✓ Why understanding must happen before agreement
✓ The communication mistake most couples make
✓ How the Holy Spirit helps reveal your spouse’s heart
Ready to go deeper?
Join us inside the Master Your Marriage Challenge where we’ll teach practical communication tools that help couples create lasting unity.
Be Blessed,
Jalen & Cacie
